Sharmika

Positive Birth Story.

Discovering I was expecting my second son Romello, I was filled with a mix of emotions, especially recalling the challenges of my first childbirth experience. However, this time, my journey unfolded in unexpected, beautiful ways.

I was supported throughout my pregnancy by doulas and the perinatal mental health team who visited me often and even helped support me after giving birth in trying to sort my healthcare from my previous birth. 

Opting for a natural birth after a previous C-section, my hopes shifted as I encountered pelvic girdle pain as-well as the chronic nerve pain in my pelvis. Consulting with doulas and the perinatal mental health team, their unwavering support guided me towards a planned C-section, a decision I ultimately embraced as the best for my circumstances.

On the day of delivery, I was greeted by a team who had listened intently to my preferences, ensuring every detail aligned with my vision for this transformative moment. As I entered the Thearte, my chosen music filled the air, enveloping me in a cocoon of serenity. With each soothing note, I felt empowered, ready to embrace the journey ahead.

The joy of not knowing my baby's gender until the moment of birth added an extra layer of anticipation and magic. When my son entered the world, he was placed upon my chest—a cherished moment I had yearned for since my first birth. 

In the days that followed, the hospital provided unparalleled care, offering us a private space to bond and heal. 

The 72 hours of epidural relief granted me precious moments to focus solely on nurturing my newborn. Though the staff was stretched thin, the support network I had cultivated ensured I felt safe and empowered throughout.

This birth story is a testament to the power of perseverance, the beauty of personalised care, and the immeasurable strength found within the journey of motherhood.